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HERcast with Dr. Chito

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Here, we believe in holistic wellness – nurturing your body, mind, finances, and social connections. Dr. Chito Umenyi Nwana created HERcast as a safe space for women of all ages to share stories, learn about health, and find inspiration.

With over two decades of experience as a gynaecologist and a feminist, Dr. Chito aims to break stereotypes and empower women to be their authentic selves. Join us to discover your potential, embrace self-love, and defy limits.

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From Lovers to Roommates: The Hidden Intimacy Crisis in Marriages

September 12, 2025 • Chito

What if love doesn’t end with divorce papers, but with silence, distance, and two people living as strangers under the same roof?

In this latest episode of HERcast with Dr. Chito, I sit with Dr. Shola (@diaryofatraumasurvivor) — a trauma-informed recovery counsellor — to explore the hidden intimacy crisis that’s breaking homes everywhere.

🔥 This isn’t just theory. It’s about the real struggles couples face: emotional distance, trauma wounds, and the quiet ache of feeling unseen. More importantly, it’s about the path back — reigniting passion, rebuilding trust, and restoring love.

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Dear HERcast Family, Thank you for being part of HERcast with Dr. Chito—a movement dedicated to empowering and uplifting women. Through inspiring stories and transformative tools, HERcast helps women overcome barriers, thrive authentically, and become the best versions of themselves. With the tagline “Her Strength, Your Inspiration,” we believe gender equity starts with knowledge, support, and community. Your journey inspires us, and we’d love to hear from you! Share your thoughts, stories, or ideas with us—because together, we rise. Warmly, The HERcast with Dr. Chito Team

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